For ladies who have children who are boys and they are not living with their fathers, it becomes a challenge to to that kid in his growing time... some of the challenges are:
- lack of fatherly love: that kid will grow up in a way hat they will not be aware of how a father should take are of their children. this will give them challenges when they grow up not knowing the right way to how a family should be lead. It makes these kids to live a lonely life
- Poor view by other kids: its usually a big challenge especially in school. this is especially when that kid does not know their father completely, it becomes a weakness to him/her because whenever they thinks about it they can loose their hope even fail their exams due to trauma which can wound them psychologically. other kids usually go ahead and lough at them siting how they don't know their fathers not knowing that no one in the entire world is willing or will always want to live in such a condition.
- lack of confidence: In most cases these kids lacks confidence in themselves. this makes them to keep whatever they feel to themselves e.g anything confidential that a kid might want to share with their father. even if they can be in a position to share with other older people its usually a big issue because you might think how the person will take it. this makes them to keep it to themselves. since they don't want to be embarrassed..
