Monday, 25 May 2020

Keep your hope alive

Job:14.7
 "At least there is hope for a tree: If it is cut down, it will sprout again, and its new shoots will not fail.

Hallelujah let's be like a tree, at times you're just cut down and the roots still grows, remember the roots never die they keep growing,
I pray today for your roots to continue growing deep to the soil, and one day just one day onwards life will be different God will answer you. And when He answers he does it in fullness.

Thursday, 28 April 2016

CHALLENGES OF SINGLE PARENTS TO KIDS

It has been a very long time since i posted a document here. I hope that I will start posting some of the issues affecting the youths and especially those who have single parents... it is a big challenge even if one is economically stable there are things you cannot clearly teach your child when you are alone.
For ladies who have children who are boys and they are not living with their fathers, it becomes a challenge to to that kid in his growing time... some of the challenges are:
  1. lack of fatherly love: that kid will grow up in a way hat they will not  be aware of how a father should take are of their children. this will give them challenges when they grow up not knowing the right way to how a family  should be lead. It makes these kids to live a lonely life  
  2. Poor view by other kids: its usually a big challenge especially in school. this is especially when that kid does not know their father completely, it becomes a weakness to him/her because whenever they thinks about it they can loose their hope even fail their exams due to trauma which can wound them psychologically. other kids usually go ahead and lough at them siting how they don't know their fathers not knowing that no one in the entire world is willing or will always want to live in such a condition.
  3. lack of confidence: In most cases these kids lacks confidence in themselves. this makes them to keep whatever they feel to themselves e.g anything confidential that a kid might want to share with their father. even if they can be in a position to share with other older people its usually a big issue because you might think how the person will take it. this makes them to keep it to themselves. since they don't want to be embarrassed..
These are just few of the issues that am preparing. i saw an urge of discussing this to the people of the world so that they should not take the issue of single parenting as a challenge to the mother or to the father alone. The person who is a victim here is the kid. I will publish an article here in less than two weeks to come so as to show a clear picture of what usually happens to these kids.... Am writing this out of experience because am one of the victims of that...

Thursday, 19 June 2014

CHALLANGES OF YOUNG PEOPLE

Young people face a lot of challenges in rural areas some of them are:

    1. Lack of information due -some of them don't know their rights especially in schools.
    2. Most of them have never gone beyond their district.this makes them become obsessed to their local activities believing its the best.
    3. Since the world is moving digital,most of them are not in a position to know and understand what it means their believe its locked.
    4. They lack business ideas (I don't mean that all of those living on urban have/know business ideas) they are locked in farming and agriculture which does not help them develop their life,it only help them get daily basic needs and remain beggars when the basic are not available
    5. Pupils usually join schools very late which usually makes them rear to clear even primary school.most pupils see themselves as grown ups during puberty ,.as a result most of them drop out of school thinking that they are better enough to support their lives
    6. Most girls drop out of school  due to lack of sanitary towels most the parents  are illiterate making  them fail to understand current facilities needed by girls under adolescence